FREE COURSE

Parent Your Trans Child to Thrive

We support you, so you can support them.

Are you coming to terms with your child being trans or non-binary?

Are you worried about how the world will treat them? 

Are you grappling with questions that are hard to find good answers for?

Do you want to know you're doing everything you can to support them?

You are not alone. 

You want your child to be safe and happy in the world. To be comfortable in their own skin. To come to you and connect with you so that you can guide and support them.

The thing is... The truth is very hopeful. You can absolutely support your transgender or non-binary child to thrive.

Mother with arm around teenage child

Research shows that parental support and connection is by far the biggest predictor of wellbeing and happiness for trans and gender diverse people. 

Not only that... 

Even with all the additional challenges that trans people face, with strong parental support, trans and gender diverse people have been shown to have similar mental health outcomes as the general population.

Your strong support is incredibly powerful. For them, you are it.

Course Outline

 

Module 1: When Your Child is Trans [FREE]

  • Common Parental Emotions and Thoughts: What parents say about their experience of parenting a trans child (you are not alone)
  • Why it's so Hard: and cultivating self-compassion
  • Risk and Resilience Factors: The pivotal #1 factor affecting trans mental health
  • The Parental Support Paradox: How trying to protect your child might paradoxically be the hardest thing they face
  • The Positive Support Cycle: Getting There Faster

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Module 1: When Your Child is Trans

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Module 2: Small Changes, Big Effects

  • How do they know they are trans?
  • The formation of gender identity
  • When and why language matters
  • Receiving and responding to new information from your child
  • Four sentences that create trust and connection, even if you’re not ready to ‘get on board’.
  • The Task of Telling People: The Who, When, What, and How of disclosure.
person holding sign saying "hello, my pronouns are..."
androgynous teenager texting on phone

Module 3: Strengthening Emotional Connection

  • Parenting when we’re afraid
  • The essentials guide to emotion theory 
  • Emotion Coaching for daily and deepening connection
  • How to repair after conflict and hurt
  • When your child doesn’t talk to you, and what you can do about it

Module 4: De-Pathologising Gender Diversity

  • How binary thinking has eclipsed the natural diversity within all living things.
  • The social significance of bodies
  • Embracing a broader perspective on gender roles through time and across cultures
  • Unwiring ourselves from the myths of femininity and masculinity.
  • Helpful and practical ways to talk about bodies with your child
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Mother with two children sitting on hikers bench looking at view

Module 5: De-Personalising Dysphoria

  • Differentiating diagnosis from feeling
  • How dysphoria disguises itself
  • Coping with dysphoria
  • Does dysphoria make you trans?
  • Understand the cause of dysphoria: a minority stress lens
  • Finding Meaningful Relief: Mitigating dysphoria.
  • The many ways to manage dysphoria, when relief is not yet possible.

Module 6: Affirming Change

  • Traditions of Transition: The legacy of concealment
  • The real purpose of transition
  • Common parent and child feelings during transition
  • Urgency, certainty and doubt
  • Navigating 'testimonial injustice' in the medical system
people at pride march holding flags
family walking holding hands, one teenager wearing a large LGBTIQ flag as a cape

Module 7: Navigating & Building Community

  • Responding to your child's experiences of transphobia
  • Three essential types of community, and how to build them.
  • Troubleshooting when community is hard to access
  • The courageous conversations template
  • Use healthy anger to guide you

Get Started

1.

Join the Community

Get immediate access to the course and resources through our Parent Community so that you can start getting support right away.

2.

Meet your cohort 

When your cohort begins, meet and connect with a small group of families who will together digest and discuss the video course each week for 7 weeks.

3.

Get ongoing personal guidance

Get expert and peer guidance any day of the week in the Community. Join the ongoing support group and guest speaker events monthly. Never feel alone with this again.

What's Included

 

  • The Video Course

    • Our 'parent your trans child to thrive' course.
    • 7 modules in bite sized lessons
    • Self-paced and available immediately.
  • Your Cohort

    • 7 weekly group calls
    • Discuss each video module together with supportive parents
    • Personal specialist guidance
  • Our Parent Community

    • A 3-month membership in a trusted community of compassionate and knowledgeable parents (usually $197)
    • Regular guest and expert speakers
    • Monthly support group
    • All your questions answered by text/audio/video
    • Library of resources,  recommendations, and inspiration.
    • Option to continue for ongoing support, events and guidance.

Choose a Cohort

Jan Group (USA)

Begins January 20th

ET, USA (New York)       - Mondays 8-9.30pm

PT, USA (Los Angeles)  - Mondays 5-6.30pm

Melbourne, Australia - Tuesdays 12-1.30pm

Enrol for January group

Feb Group (Australia)

Begins February 11th

Melbourne, Australia - Tuesdays 7.30-9pm

 

Enrol for February group

Who We Are

We are Ari Heart (they/them) and Jes Anderberg (she/her).

We are both therapists and educators, working in the fields of trans mental health, advocacy and education. Together we have thousands of hours of clinical experience working with gender diverse people and their families.

Throughout our work, we have continuously seen the urgent need for parents to receive high-quality and compassionate information and support when their child is gender diverse.

We have collated years of professional, community, and personal expertise and research into this 7 week program, so that parents can escalate their learning and improve their life and relationship with their child. 

"I could not imagine better facilitators for this program than Ari and Jes, whose immense kindness, generosity, wisdom and relevant personal and clinical experience enliven and enrich the course content and discussions."

- Sally & Justin, parents of 5 year old.

“Ari is a caring and thoughtful practitioner who I have known for many years, they’re someone I trust and highly respect. I’m so happy that they are supporting parents to help our young people thrive.”

- Starlady, Zoe Belle Gender Collective

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Headshot of co-founder Jes Anderberg

Frequently Asked Questions

Choose a Cohort

Jan Group (USA)

Begins January 20th

ET, USA (New York)       - Mondays 8-9.30pm

PT, USA (Los Angeles)  - Mondays 5-6.30pm

Melbourne, Australia - Tuesdays 12-1.30pm

Enrol for January group

Feb Group (Australia)

Begins February 11th

Melbourne, Australia - Tuesdays 7.30-9pm

 

Enrol for February group